Sunday, July 02, 2006

The Greatest Mistake that couples make...

After reading the title of this article, you might have come across on the idea where couples have other relationships than the one they love can be the greatest mistake that they make. Or maybe something like this might come across in your thinking that sex before marriage can be the greatest mistake that the couple can make. It is when you get pregnant or you are charged and it causes separation or ruin your love life… maybe at some sense can be right. Everyone of use had been through some kind of experience in relationship. You might have loved a person so deeply and truly. Let me come to the point, when we are in love, maybe you might be a boyfriend or girlfriend, or married couples. One thing that we often do when we are in argument, we often tell the opposite sex how regretful you are by marrying her or him. You even bring back all the past stories when you first met her or him… or the failure stories of them… or the weak point of them… I have seen many married couples or boy friend and girlfriend who regret for being with the person whom they love.
One thing I would like to ask all those who are reading this… please don’t you ever say that you are really regret to be with the person you are with now… especially when you tell him or her about it while or not in the arguments and fighting. It is most painful word for the person who really loves you. It is really hurts the person and that person will never forget that words… and it will be inside their heart even though they are not showing it… if you have argument and really angry with the one you love… don’t use words that shows that you are really regret of being with that person… all you have to do is just give the person “silent treatment” when the argument is over… just tell the person in a creative way that you really glad and happy to be with and live with that person… It will make them so special and it will nourish your love life too… Love life is not about one person or selfishness. It is about togetherness until you die… togetherness even though you are different… togetherness even though you have serious argument… It is about your every aspect of your life… you are not alone in this world… when one person is affected in this world, others who are around him or her will be affected too.
THINK WISELY! Do to others as you wish others to do to you! Love one another with nice and lovely words… and not harsh and regretting words…. It is because there are no perfect people in this world… BUT there is one PERFECT GOD and GOD is LOVE… Love one another with whole of your heart and accept them as they are…God Bless You and your relationship…
Love and Grace
Robert J Agustin

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