Love Is Choice- It is your choice

When you love someone, or in love with someone,you will always come across with someone whoare more beautiful or handsome than your lovedone. You even will find someone who is wiser or more knowledgeable than the one you love. Otherthan that, you also will find someone who is more understanding and caring person than the one you love. If I want to tell more, there are a lot of things that I could tell from my observation. The point here is that you still will find someone better than the one you love.This is why I believe that, Love is Choice. It is where you make or made choice to live with and love the person. We are the one making choice here to love someone, and it is where the opposite sex made a choice to accept you. It is all your choice to love someone. It is depend on you and your choice. Human being was given this gift, the gift called freedom of choice. Yeah! Some of you are from Asian cultures may think that it is not your choice to live with and love a person chosen by your parents. At the end you still make choice even though your parents make you to love the person and live with him or her. It doesn’t matter whether it is arranged marriage or love marriage, at the end you are the one making the choice to live with the person and love the person. That’s reality.We are making choice.
Some times, most of you who are in relationship will come into a time when you will see or come across with someone who is better than the one you love. You might not tell it out because you are afraid of being spot by people that you are not loyal to the one you love. Let me tell you, many married people that I met even said the same things. Yeah, they made choice to live with the one they love. Some of them are mature and understood this. That’s why most of the married couples whenever they see someone who are better than the one they love, they always remind themselves that they already made a commitment and made choice to live with and love the one they love. This is what I call mature relationship. If any couples or individual out there can’t get this and can’t understand this they are not in mature relationship. It is when they are not mature in relationship, or in understanding the nature of love and relationship, they can’t stay with the loved one forever. To love someone you need to achieve maturity in mind and heart. At the end it is the choice you make to live with and love someone. When you make this choice you will learn to accept the person as she or he is. This is what I called mature love and relationship.This maturity is continuous development in us. It isyour choice.

Robert J Agustin